I had this exact same conversation except I had LD’s argument. What is with people and eternity? Is this lifetime not enough?

“INFJs you slowly learn to resent, INFPs you quickly learn to forget.”

So true. Resentment is like a slow poison that takes time to become toxic. INFP’s are BORING, sickly sweet and I always want to make them blush or cringe, push them past the pretty wrapping paper of their novel reality and embrace the dark side. bwuhahaha. Doesn’t really ever happen and so they aren’t that memorable except for being annoying and childish.
- token thought – “wow… your that nice guy that just has no fizzle… I have no room in my life for nice guys, I’m here to conquer the insufferable ego maniacs and battle with the know it all’s, no time for fairy tales and moonbeams.” That’s not to say that some people don’t need or deserve to have a sullen,sweet,safe and preoccupied significant other in their life, it’s just not me.

“INFJs love to energetically argue, and usually can’t stop, even when they’re getting the crap kicked out of them”

Oh yes. I love a good argument I can feel passionately about. Puts the meaning into life, because if you don’t feel passionately about something, anything, are you really living?

INFJ:

“Ni wants the oneness and connection of the ideal romantic relationship. Fe wants the commitment and social role of the relationship that Ni creates, as well as puts the partner before the self. Ti keeps us thinking that we have our oneness and connection even if we do not, but also focuses on the logic behind quality over quantity (as opposed to Te which tends toward the opposite). Se loves the sensual side of things, and when combined with all the other functions, it is forced to blend the sensual act into an emotional symphony of physical affection.

In my own experience, I’ve had many meaningful and memorable moments with partners that I’ve never had sex with”

dancing is one of those moments-
“Dancing is a perpendicular expression of a horizontal desire.” – George Bernard Shaw

INFJs:

value personal integrity and “being true to yourself”
are on a lifelong search for a unique identity and meaning; spirituality is important to us
can be hard to get to know, depending on the other person (reciprocity)
are sometimes seen by others as cold and hard on the outside
can be difficult to “peg”; sometimes INFJs may not even recognise fellow members of their own type
may find it easier to express their deepest feelings and sentiments non-verbally or in writing
abhor evil or injustice, especially that directed towards the innocent or helpless
are sometimes looked upon by others as naive, mostly due to our idealism
can be quite gullible; many INFJs build up a protective armour over the years to protect against this and being “used” by others
enjoy thoughtful discussion but dislike arguing for argument’s sake, as this often degenerates into ugly conflict
are bookworms, love bookstores and libraries
are affiliative; get stressed and cannot survive for extended periods without company
rarely get into conflict, but when it erupts, can be very bitter
aren’t terribly career-minded
love personality tests and other self-improvement tools
love quotes/quotations and are often “philosophers” or “theologists”
need to confide in others and express opinions and feelings about others: Fe-ing (Feeling extraverted)
are “Directors” who give advice, though usually more subtly than most other Directors.
are interested in ESP, paranormal, “new age,” or psychic experiences
“Mute withdrawal is a major INFJ defense.”
often have “oceanic” memories where details are recalled through intuitive leaps and thought association

The Leo Sun/Leo Moon combination produces a forceful, ambitious and concentrative personality…one which is bent on achieving a good deal of prestige and success in the world. On the surface, these persons appear jovial, sunny, full of vitality and always expressing good spirits. However, beneath this facade, there often lurks a hard streak in the nature…a degree of ruthlessness which never forgets or forgives any injury or slight to the innate pride and/or vanity. Somehow, Leo Sun/Leo Moon natives can be jovial, sunny and friendly while remaining so independent and authorative that they seek nothing less than the ultimate in leadership and prominence. Nevertheless, there is someting magnificent about the methods of fighting associated with this combination…whether the battle be personal or on behalf of others. There is a scorn for enemies here that enables the Leo subject governed by a Leo Moon to demolish such enemies ruthlessly, but the action will be devoid of any malice. In short, there is a detached and impersonal quality marking the nature of this combination. These individuals are not inherently introspective and many of their actions are based upon instincts rather than analyzed personal motive. They also have tremendous personal control…a control which, given time, will likely be exerted over others. Leo Sun/Leo Moon subjects possess a vast degree of pride and vanity which can be satisfied, for example, by displays of admiration and flattery from those around them…or by the broader method of achieved amitions. There will always be a constant tendency toward the excessive in a variety of ways. These individuals are endowed with an immensely strong will…a will which can be used in either a positive or negative fashion.

Some Famous Leo Sun/Leo Moon Personalities
* Yasser Arafat * Stephen Carpenter * Coby Dick * Jonathan Frakes * Herbert Hoover * Donny Most *
* Peter O’Toole * Martin Sheen * Wesley Snipes * Patrick Swayze *
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