My Venus in Cancer in the 11th house squares my Pluto in Libra in the 2nd house.
Georgous by definition:
Splendid or sumptuous in appearance, coloring, magnificent.
Informal. extremely good, enjoyable, or pleasant
These are some famous people who have Venus Pluto square aspects:
Chiricahua Apache leader,medicine man and warrior Geronimo
Jennifer Love-Hewitt
Jim Morrison (The Doors)
Bruce Lee
I am just so tired of trying to figure it all out. How it should be, how it could be, how I could be, how we could be, how all of this coulda, shoulda woulda.
I just want to be how I am
I’m sorry if that’s hurtful
I’m sorry if that’s offensive
I’m sorry if that’s not comfortable
I just want to be how I am.
At some point I have to care about being honest and authentic with myself more than censoring to meet the needs of others.
*The INFJ will need support and verbal support from their mate. Criticism is death to the INFJ type.
*The INFJ believes they know well almost everything, have difficulty seeing otherwise.
*The INFJ may not openly show/verbalize the extremely deep feelings they may have.
*INFJs typically enjoy idealized settings, they may revisit a first date venue, first kiss, marriage proposal site, etc…be disappointed if mate does not see the benefit of such activity.
*The INFJ needs relationship. They can be quick to begin one that is not good just to have one, the quickly change when the “real thing” is found.
*At times, the INFJ can probe too deeply in relationship, looking for hidden meaning, not knowing their mate is irritated by such probing.
*The INFJ can be among, perhaps is, the most stubborn of all the types. INFJ is very patient but when time has run out they will write one off forever.
*This type will bond deeply with children, try to be their friend.
*Will have a potentially rich fantasy life.
*Very affectionate at their own time and in their own way.
Conflict Reactions Personality Traits:
*The INFJ may be completely surprised that there is a conflict altogether
*INFJ can become easily depressed when conflict begins
*Will likely be deeply hurt
*INFJ is likely to IGNORE the conflict if it hurts to much
*Will accommodate (give in) to others if INFJ VALUES are NOT compromised
*Eventually may see the conflict as a chance for personal growth
*INFJs will work hard to reach a mutual, harmonious solution
Conflict Resolution Activity Personality Traits
*Unless stressed, INFJ will be respectful as they work for solution
*Will keep “harmony” in mind at all times
*Unless stressed, the INFJ will not “criticize” during resolution attempts
*Normally patient as all parties speak their minds toward resolution
*INFJ solutions will be insightful
*INFJ will embrace consensus and a win-win attitude
Positive Solutions Will Be
*May be idealistic and future oriented
*Harmonious to all parties
*Likely very “creative”
*People oriented
*Embracive of compromise, cooperation and communication
*Results-focused
Conflict Resolution Activity-Improvement Opportunities (weaknesses)
*INFJ will probably get their feelings hurt during the process
*Because of the above, INFJ will not get to the point as quickly in conflict
*INFJ may tend to exclude those responsible and talk to others first
*INFJ will naturally ignore details
*INFJ will take it all very personally
*INFJ may be too “indirect” which looks like they are ignoring others
*For harmony sake, the INFJ may move too quickly toward resolution and regret it later
*The INFJ thought can be too complex and not stated concisely enough for others
winter is trying to kill me…. again.
Every year it gets worse and worse.
I really would be very happy living in the humid jungle. My sinuses would be great, my skin and hair would look fabulous.
Why do I continue to torture myself in this environment.
It’s like a polar bear trying to live in S.Florida.
I must move.
One winter… I fear I will not survive.